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Why Should I Be Baptised, and What Does It Mean?

Baptism doesn’t save you. But it’s the first thing Jesus told his followers to do — and he did it himself first.

Jesus went first

Before Jesus called anyone else to be baptised, he walked into the Jordan River and did it himself. He had no sin to repent of, no guilt to wash away. When John the Baptist tried to stop him, Jesus gave a remarkable answer:

“But Jesus answered him, ‘Let it be so now, for thus it is fitting for us to fulfill all righteousness.’ Then he consented.”

Matthew 3:15 (ESV)

And when Jesus came up out of the water, heaven itself responded:

“And when he came up out of the water, immediately he saw the heavens being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, ‘You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.’”

Mark 1:10–11 (ESV)

Jesus identified with us by being baptised. He stepped into the water not because he needed to, but because he chose to stand where we stand. If you now belong to Christ, you follow Christ’s example.

The first instruction to new believers

When Peter preached at Pentecost and three thousand people believed, his very first instruction was immediate:

“Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”

Acts 2:38 (ESV)

And Jesus himself, in his final words before ascending to heaven, placed baptism at the very centre of making new disciples:

“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.”

Matthew 28:19–20 (ESV)

Baptism was not optional in the early church. It was immediate. Throughout the book of Acts, new believers were baptised the same day they believed — sometimes within hours.

“What prevents me from being baptised?”

One of the most striking baptism stories is the Ethiopian official who met Philip on a desert road. Philip explained the gospel from Isaiah. The moment the man understood and believed, his response was instant:

“And as they were going along the road they came to some water, and the eunuch said, ‘See, here is water! What prevents me from being baptized?’ … And they both went down into the water, Philip and the eunuch, and he baptized him.”

Acts 8:36, 38 (ESV)

No waiting period. No membership class. The man believed, saw water, and asked: why would I wait?

What baptism means

“Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.”

Romans 6:3–4 (ESV)

Going under

Buried with Christ — your old life, your old identity, your old guilt goes into the grave with him.

Coming up

Raised with Christ — you emerge into newness of life, a new creation, united with him in his resurrection.

Public declaration

The whole church sees it — you are saying with your body, “I belong to Jesus Christ now.”

“For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ.”

Galatians 3:27 (ESV)

Baptism is like putting on a uniform. It doesn’t make you a soldier — enlisting did that. But it identifies you publicly with the army you now belong to.

From slavery through water: an ancient pattern

There is a beautiful parallelism running through the whole Bible. When God brought the Israelites out of slavery in Egypt, he led them through the Red Sea on dry ground — Pharaoh’s army, the power that enslaved them, was washed away behind them in the water. Paul saw the connection:

“For I do not want you to be unaware, brothers, that our fathers were all under the cloud, and all passed through the sea, and all were baptized into Moses in the cloud and in the sea.”

1 Corinthians 10:1–2 (ESV)

God brought Israel out of slavery to Pharaoh through water — and they walked out free on the other side. Now, God brings humanity out of slavery to sin through water — and we walk out free into new life. The Israelites crossed dry; we cross wet. But the pattern is the same: through the water, the old master loses his claim, and you belong to a new Lord.

David Pawson: the four doors of the “normal Christian birth”

David Pawson, in his influential book The Normal Christian Birth, argued that the church has often given new believers an incomplete start. Looking at the conversion accounts in Acts, Pawson identified four distinct steps that together make up the full “normal” entry into the Christian life:

Door 1

Repent

Turn away from sin toward God

Door 2

Believe

Place ongoing faith in the Lord Jesus

Door 3

Be baptised

Public immersion in water

Door 4

Receive the Spirit

The gift of the Holy Spirit

Pawson’s concern was that many people are told they are “saved” after only the first two doors — repentance and faith — without ever being baptised or consciously receiving the Holy Spirit. He called this being “half born again.” His challenge: look at Acts 2:38, Acts 8, Acts 19 — in every case, all four elements are present. They may happen close together or over a period of time, but what matters is that they all happen.

“No such thing as an unbaptised believer in the early church.”

— David Pawson

Pawson also made a distinction that is often missed: water baptism deals with the past — it leaves you clean and empty. The baptism of the Holy Spirit fills the future — it equips you with power for the life ahead. Easter is repeated in the believer’s life when they are buried and raised in baptism. Pentecost is repeated when they are filled with the Holy Spirit.

Water baptism and the baptism of the Holy Spirit

It is important to understand that being baptised in water and being baptised in the Holy Spirit are not the same thing. Jesus himself made the distinction:

“For John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now.”

Acts 1:5 (ESV)

John the Baptist had already said the same thing about Jesus:

“I have baptized you with water, but he will baptize you with the Holy Spirit.”

Mark 1:8 (ESV)

Christians hold different views on how these relate. Some believe the baptism of the Holy Spirit was a unique, unrepeatable event that happened at Pentecost (Acts 2) and at a few other key moments in Acts (such as the Spirit falling on the Gentiles in Acts 10), and that all believers today receive the Holy Spirit at the moment of conversion. Others believe that the baptism of the Holy Spirit is a distinct experience that may follow conversion, often accompanied by spiritual gifts. What all agree on is this: water baptism and the work of the Spirit are both part of the full Christian experience, and neither replaces the other.

What baptism does not do

Baptism does not save you. Faith does. This distinction matters because getting it wrong in either direction causes real damage.

If you think baptism saves you, you’ve added a human work to the gospel of grace — and Paul spent entire letters fighting that error. Salvation is by grace through faith, not by any ritual (Ephesians 2:8–9). The thief on the cross was never baptised, and Jesus told him, “Today you will be with me in paradise” (Luke 23:43).

But if you think baptism doesn’t matter, you’re ignoring a direct command from Jesus himself. Baptism is not a condition of salvation — it’s the first act of obedience after salvation.

Peter captures both sides carefully:

“Baptism, which corresponds to this, now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a good conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ.”

1 Peter 3:21 (ESV)

The power is in what baptism points to, not in the water itself. Just as the bread and wine in the Lord’s Supper are ordinary bread and ordinary wine, the water in baptism is ordinary water. But because these acts are done for the Lord, in obedience to his command, they carry a significance that goes beyond the physical elements.

What should I do?

If you’ve believed in Jesus and haven’t yet been baptised, talk to a pastor at your church. Don’t wait until you feel “ready enough” — no one in Acts waited. The Ethiopian didn’t sign up for a course. The Philippian jailer was baptised at midnight (Acts 16:33). Readiness is not the prerequisite — faith is.

If you’re in the Kuala Lumpur area, speak with a pastor at Hope Evangelical Free Church in Wangsa Maju. If you’d like help finding a church elsewhere, connect with someone and we’ll try to help.

Hard questions

Does it have to be full immersion?

Every indication in the New Testament points to immersion. The Greek word baptizo means “to immerse” or “to dip.” John the Baptist chose to baptise at Aenon near Salim specifically “because water was plentiful there” (John 3:23) — you don’t need plentiful water to sprinkle someone. When Philip baptised the Ethiopian, “they both went down into the water” (Acts 8:38). When Jesus was baptised by John, it was in the Jordan River, and Mark records that he “came up out of the water” (Mark 1:10). And the symbolism of Romans 6:3–4 — burial and resurrection — is most naturally expressed through full immersion: going completely under and coming back up. While some traditions practise sprinkling or pouring, immersion is what the New Testament describes and what the symbolism demands.

I was baptised as an infant. Should I be baptised again as a believer?

Some traditions (Catholic, Anglican, Presbyterian) practise infant baptism as a sign of God’s covenant promise. Others (Baptist, Evangelical Free, many independent churches) believe baptism should follow a personal confession of faith. If you were baptised as an infant but have now personally believed, many churches would encourage believer’s baptism — not to invalidate what your parents did, but to make the declaration your own. Talk to your pastor about your specific situation.

Should I baptise my baby?

A personal word from the author

I come from a tradition that does not practise infant baptism, and I personally would not baptise my child as an infant. Why? Because I do not want to rob my child of the experience of being fully immersed in water as a conscious, willing believer — going under and coming up, knowing exactly what it means, and remembering it for the rest of their life. That moment of personal obedience is a gift I want my child to have for themselves, at the right time, with their own faith, not mine.

Can I be saved without being baptised?

Yes — the thief on the cross proves that (Luke 23:43). But the bigger question is: if you are able to be baptised, then why aren’t you? It is worth examining your heart honestly. What is it that you’re holding back? What is it that you refuse to surrender fully to Jesus? God doesn’t want 90% of you, or 99% — he wants all of you. Jesus said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Matthew 16:24). Baptism is not the hardest thing Jesus asks of you — but if you can’t bring yourself to do the easiest act of public obedience, it may be worth asking what that resistance is really about.

Should I expect anything supernatural from water baptism?

The water is ordinary water. Just as the bread and wine in communion are ordinary bread and ordinary wine, there is nothing inherently supernatural about the physical elements. The power is in what the act represents and in the God to whom it is directed. That said, many believers have testified to a profound sense of God’s presence, joy, or spiritual release during or after their baptism. Others describe it as a simple, quiet act of obedience with no dramatic experience at all. Both are completely valid. The value of baptism does not depend on what you feel in the moment — it depends on the one in whose name you are baptised. Whether your experience is dramatic or undramatic, what matters is that you obeyed.